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“Life Been Lifing” feels like an accountability partner, gently and consistently pointing the reader back to the ultimate source—the Bible. Through scripture, insightful interpretations, reflective exercises, and guided worksheets, author Bailey Orenia steps in as both a vulnerable friend and coach, rooting for the reader to live a God-filled life. She encourages consistency in spiritual renewal. Orenia doesn’t leave the reader guessing—her intentions are clear, direct, and anchored in truth. This is not a book to rush through, but one to reflect on, and return to often."

 

– Ashlyn M. | Sr. Creative Marketing Professional
Laurel, MD

“As a Black woman and consulting professional currently navigating a meaningful career pivot, Life Been Lifing by Bailey Orenia arrived in my life at the perfect time. Orenia's voice is raw, affirming, and beautifully authentic—she captures the nuances of Black womanhood with a clarity that feels both intimate and revolutionary. This book is a powerful reminder that our challenges don’t define us, but they do refine us. With humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom, Bailey gives language to the silent battles and the triumphant breakthroughs many of us experience but rarely see mirrored back so honestly. Reading this felt like a soulful check-in with a friend who gets it. For anyone standing at a crossroads or simply needing to feel seen and inspired—Life Been Lifing is the read you didn’t know you needed."

 

– Kristie C. | Client Strategy & Business Development
Brooklyn, NY

“Life Been Lifing” feels like an accountability partner, gently and consistently pointing the reader back to the ultimate source—the Bible. Through scripture, insightful interpretations, reflective exercises, and guided worksheets, author Bailey Orenia steps in as both a vulnerable friend and coach, rooting for the reader to live a God-filled life. She encourages consistency in spiritual renewal. Orenia doesn’t leave the reader guessing—her intentions are clear, direct, and anchored in truth. This is not a book to rush through, but one to reflect on, and return to often."

 

– Ashlyn M. | Sr. Creative Marketing Professional
Laurel, MD

“As a Black woman and consulting professional currently navigating a meaningful career pivot, Life Been Lifing by Bailey Orenia arrived in my life at the perfect time. Orenia's voice is raw, affirming, and beautifully authentic—she captures the nuances of Black womanhood with a clarity that feels both intimate and revolutionary. This book is a powerful reminder that our challenges don’t define us, but they do refine us. With humor, heart, and hard-earned wisdom, Bailey gives language to the silent battles and the triumphant breakthroughs many of us experience but rarely see mirrored back so honestly. Reading this felt like a soulful check-in with a friend who gets it. For anyone standing at a crossroads or simply needing to feel seen and inspired—Life Been Lifing is the read you didn’t know you needed."

 

– Kristie C. | Client Strategy & Business Development
Brooklyn, NY

You Know Life Been Lifing
But What If There’s More?

Have you ever looked around and thought, “This can’t be it?”

Does This Sound Familiar?

You’re navigating the space between who life has forced you to be and who God is calling you to become can leave you feeling stuck and unsure of your purpose.

You feel like you’re meant for more, but you’re stuck in cycles, choices, or distractions that don’t serve you

You know deep down that God is calling you to something greater, but you’re not sure how to break free and walk in it.

Does This Sound Familiar

YOU’RE NOT ALONE!

Every day, women are waking up, showing up, and pushing through, and still feeling unfulfilled. Purpose isn’t just a luxury for the lucky. It’s a calling for you.

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I KNOW EXACTLY HOW YOU FEEL

You’ve been holding it all together on the outside but inside, you’re just going through the motions. 

You can feel that God has more for you, but you’re not sure how to tap into it.

 

Life Been Lifing was written for women like you. Women who are done pretending and ready to start living with purpose.

 

This isn’t just a book. It’s your roadmap to stop wandering and start walking in divine alignment.

 

Inside, you’ll find God-given truth, hard-won wisdom, and soul-deep encouragement to help you get still, get real, and finally get clear about the purpose God designed just for you.

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HERE’S THE THING

Your Purpose has the Power to Transform Your Life…

But only if you learn how to recognize it, protect it, and walk in it—especially when life gets loud.

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Life Been Lifing will help you discover the God-given gifts and passions that point to your purpose…
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Life Been Lifing will help you recognize the areas where distraction is keeping you stuck…

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Life Been Lifing will help you get honest about your current season, and take your next right step…
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Life Been Lifing will help you find a tribe of like-minded people who encourage growth to potentially experience a quantum leap in your journey.

As Pastor Tony Evans said:

“If you want to know your calling, don’t go ‘calling-looking.’ Go God-looking. God knows where He wants you, what He is calling you to do…”

You weren’t just meant to survive life. You were meant to live live on purpose.

Let this book be your sign. Your tap on the shoulder. Your next chapter.

HERE’S THE THING

Your Purpose has the Power to Transform Your Life…

But only if you learn how to recognize it, protect it, and walk in it, especially when life gets loud.

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Life Been Lifing will help you discover the God-given gifts and passions that point to your purpose…
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Life Been Lifing will help you recognize the areas where distraction is keeping you stuck…

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Life Been Lifing will help you get honest about your current season, and take your next right step…
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Life Been Lifing will help you find a tribe of like-minded people who encourage growth to potentially experience a quantum leap in your journey.

As Pastor Tony Evans said:

“If you want to know your calling, don’t go ‘calling-looking.’ Go God-looking. God knows where He wants you, what He is calling you to do…”

You weren’t just meant to survive life. You were meant to live it on purpose.

Let this book be your sign. Your tap on the shoulder. Your next chapter.

"This book is Awesome! So many nuggets. God definitely ordered your steps on this one. I will be reading it again!"

 

 

 

 

 

– Elizabeth W. | Retired MPDC
Upper Marlboro, MD

"This book is Awesome! So many nuggets. God definitely ordered your steps on this one. I will be reading it again!"

 

 

– Elizabeth W. | Retired MPDC
Upper Marlboro, MD

Chapters

what exactly is in the book?

Glad you ask.
Here’s what’s inside.

Chapters

what exactly is in the book?

Glad you ask.
Here’s what’s inside.

01.

The Pursuit of Purpose

Start here. This chapter breaks down why your purpose isn’t just a “nice idea,” but a divine assignment that brings clarity, direction, and meaning to your life.

02.

God’s Plan

You’ve got plans, but what about God’s? Discover how surrendering your hustle to His divine strategy opens doors you couldn’t force open if you tried.

03.

The Imposter vs. The Called

Impostor syndrome may scream loud, but your calling speaks louder. This chapter walks you through confronting doubt and remembering who sent you.

04.

The Renewing of Your Mind

Transformation doesn’t start with action, it starts with thought. Learn how to let go of limiting beliefs and start aligning your mindset with truth.

05.

The Gift of the Spirit

Your purpose is powered by your gifts. This chapter explores how spiritual gifts equip you to show up boldly and serve deeply in your calling.

06.

Your Quest for Purpose

Now that you’ve been prepared, it’s time to go deeper. Begin your personal exploration with intentional reflection, prayer, and practical steps to walk in purpose.

07.

Your Purpose Pitch

Can you articulate your assignment in a sentence? This chapter helps you clarify and confidently communicate your God-given purpose with power and clarity.

08.

Purpose Plan

Clarity without strategy leads to frustration. Build a faith-forward, actionable plan to live out your purpose with focus and direction.

09.

Gifted and Talented

This chapter guides you through the process of developing your God-given talents with discipline, faith, and intentional growth.

10.

Pay Attention

Distractions don’t always look like disasters, sometimes they show up as good things pulling you away from the God thing. This chapter helps you recognize what’s stealing your focus and teaches you how to stay locked in on your purpose, even when life tries to pull you off course.

11.

The Appointed Time

You’ve been given the gift of time, now it’s time to steward it well. This chapter dives into managing your days with intention so you don’t miss divine assignments. Learn how to prioritize what matters, stop wasting energy on distractions, and create rhythms that align with your purpose.

12.

Who Are You Rollin’ With?

Purpose isn’t a solo mission. This chapter dives into the power of community, alignment, and choosing relationships that help you grow, not shrink.

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I’m Ready to Start My Purpose Journey.

This *is* for you if:

You’re tired of going through the motions and are ready to live with clarity and purpose.

 

You’ve hit a breaking point and know that God didn’t bring you this far just to survive—you’re ready to thrive.

 

You crave real talk, spiritual insight, and practical steps to reconnect with your calling and protect your peace.

 

It’s *not* for you if…

You’re looking for a quick fix without doing the inner work of healing and transformation.

 

You’d rather keep performing for approval than face the truth about burnout, boundaries, and broken identity.

 

You’re uncomfortable with a faith-based approach that centers God, rest, and emotional wellness as part of your journey.

 

Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

Questions

Frequently Asked Questions

What is Life Been Lifing really about?

Life Been Lifing is a faith-based guide to rediscovering your God-given purpose when life feels overwhelming, unfulfilling, or off track. It’s part testimony, part workbook, and part wake-up call for women who know there’s more but aren’t sure how to step into it.

Who is this book for?
It’s for the Black woman who wears all the hats: entrepreneur, leader, mother, caretaker, but she still feels like something’s missing. If you’re exhausted, questioning your next move, or spiritually out of alignment, this book is your roadmap back to purpose and peace.
I already know my purpose, do I still need this book?
Absolutely. Life Been Lifing isn’t just about discovering your purpose; it’s about maintaining it, protecting it, and navigating the distractions and detours that come with it. Even if you know your “what,” this book helps you reconnect with your “why” and manage your time and energy in alignment with God’s timing.
Is this book just inspirational or is it also practical?
It’s both. You’ll get spiritual insight and practical steps. Life Been Lifing includes exercises to help you unlock your purpose, help writing your purpose pitch, planning with intention, and creating boundaries that honor your calling. It’s designed to help you do the work with guided reflections and actionable exercises in each chapter.
How is this different from other self-help or Christian books?
This book doesn’t just sprinkle scriptures over generic advice. It speaks directly to the lived experience of Black women navigating purpose in a world that demands too much. It’s real, relatable, and rooted in faith, written by someone who’s walked the same path and isn’t afraid to tell the truth about what it took to thrive.
How long does it take to go through the book?
You can read it straight through in a weekend, but it’s meant to be experienced, not just read. Most women take 2–4 weeks to fully engage with the reflection questions, implement the tools, and revisit chapters as needed. It’s a resource you’ll come back to as your life evolves.
What if I feel stuck or unsure about what my purpose really is?

That’s exactly who this book was written for, but you will have to do the work and take some time to reflect. Life Been Lifing helps you get clear on your unique calling by walking you through real-life struggles, biblical truths, and practical exercises. If you’re tired of second-guessing yourself, this book will help you silence the noise, recognize your gifts, and take bold, faith-filled steps toward the life God called you to live.

Bailey Orenia
-Bailey Orenia “Your Purpose Coach™”,
Certified Integrative Life Coach

HEY THERE!

I’M BAILEY

I was a 49-year-old single mom and successful entrepreneur. But I was questioning if I was really walking in my God-given purpose.

 

The truth? Yes, I was using my gifts and making an impact, but I was inconsistent.

 

Then came a shift. In a moment of reflection, I realized my lack of purpose had cost me money, but more than that, it had cost me time. That’s when I made a covenant with God. I would finish what I started. I would share what I’ve learned. I would help other women avoid the detours I took.

 

Because I know what it’s like to be gifted… but stuck.
I know what it’s like to inspire others… while secretly feeling unfulfilled.

 

And I also know what it takes to break free from that cycle. And now, I want to help you do the same.

Will YOU
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